10 Rules to Live By to Achieve ESFJ Success

  1. Feed Your Strengths! Let your talent for caring and giving spill out into the world around you, show your gifts to the Allow yourself to take opportunities to nurture and develop situations in your home and work environments which bring value for yourself and others. Find work or a hobby which allows you to realize these strengths.
  2. Face Your Weaknesses! Realize and accept that some things are never going to be how you would like them to Understand that other peoples need to deal with the world regardless of how it seems. Facing and dealing with discord or differences in others doesn’t mean that you have to change who you are; it means that you are giving yourself opportunities to grow. By facing your weaknesses, you honor your true self and that of others.
  3. Discover the World of Don’t let yourself fall into the trap of thinking you always know what is right for others. Open your heart to the possibility of understanding that their true needs are something that must be discovered through recognition that their view of the world might be very different, yet just as valid as your own.
  4. Don’t be too Try to let things settle before you make a judgment, allowing others to discover the best for themselves while you try to see all the variables and contingencies in a situation.
  5. Look Carefully at the Remember, things are not always what they seem on the surface. You might need to look deeper to discover the truth, particularly when it seems you are sure of your first quick judgment. There are layers of meaning and truth beneath everything.
  6. Try to Let Others Take Some of the By letting others make their own judgments, you are not letting things get out of control, but are validating their own need to be a part of your life. Remember, it is better to guide another to see your point of view than keeping them out of the picture.
  7. Be Accountable to Remember that they need to understand you and your needs too. Express your doubts and difficulties as well as your reasons and let them become partners to your goals.
  8. Don’t Hem Yourself Staying in your comfort zone is self defeating in the end. Try to make every day one where you get out and discover a little something different about the world and others. This will broaden your horizons and bring new ideas and opportunities into focus.
  9. Assume the Best and Seek for Don’t wait for others to live up to your expectations. Every person has a goldmine of worth in them, just as every situation can be turned to some good. If you let yourself believe this, you will find yourself discovering ways to make it true for you.
  10. When in Doubt, Ask For Help! Don’t let your fears leave you on the horns of a dilemma or lead you into If you are uncertain of something or someone then get input from others who have greater experience in dealing with this difficulty.