10 Rules to Live By to Achieve ENFJ Success

  1. Feed Your Strengths! Make sure you have opportunities to involve yourself with others in situations where your input is
  2. Face Your Weaknesses! Realize and accept that some traits are strengths and some are By facing your weaknesses, you can overcome them and they will have less power over you.
  3. Express Your Understand that your feelings are as important as others are in the overall situation. Without your feelings and needs being valued the best result is not realized, so value and speak to your own feelings as much as you value those of others.
  4. Make Don’t be afraid to have an opinion. You need to know show others the qualities and potentials you can see are worthy of action.
  5. Smile at Try to see why disagreement and discord indicate the differences between people, and use this as an opportunity to make your value judgments useful for growth, because that’s exactly what they are. Try not to feel responsible for another’s criticism, but try to hear it and understand the feelings and images it engenders within you. Then you may see a path not only to agreement but to a shared and truly valuable end.
  6. Be Aware of Remember that there are 15 other personality types out there who see things differently than you see them. Most of your problems with other people are easier to deal with if you try to understand the other person’s perspective.
  7. Be Aware of Don’t stint your own needs for the sake of others too much. Realize you are an important focus. If you do not fulfill your own needs, how will continue to be effective and how will others know you are true to your beliefs?
  8. Be Gentle in Your It is easy for you to see the value in others, but stressing this too much can drive them away. Try to show that you understand their fears and limitations and lead them gently to see how you feel: lead them gently into understanding and love.
  9. Assume the Don’t distress yourself by feeling that your values are lost upon others – they are not. Perhaps it just has to sit with them too. Let the situation resolve itself and never stop believing that love is the true answer.
  10. When in Doubt, Ask Questions! Don’t assume that the lack of feedback is the same thing as negative If you need feedback and don’t have any, ask for it.
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This content comes from: written by Robert Heyward.